The answer to all the above is 'no' the feeling you have in the pit of your stomach is your punishment for enjoying yourself, so stop your whining and take it like a man!
Footnote: Gemma and Sharon are fictional characters.
Footnote: sorry Gemma I hope your Mum will one day forgive me. ☹️😳
Footnote: sorry Sharon I hope one day you find it in your heart to forgive me and don't worry I've set up a just giving page for any shrink bills/bail money they might need in the future. 😬😬😬🤗